by Warren Wojnowski
The deliberate use of Law of Attraction is an area of our work on which we are very focused. Simply put, this law states that you attract into your life whatever it is you focus upon. Period.
This is very exciting because it means that any of us has the power to create whatever life we desire simply by applying Law of Attraction in a deliberate way. However, this also means there is a downside to Law of Attraction. The downside is this … you attract into your experience whatever you choose to focus on.
Now if your focus is on what you don’t want - too many bills, too much debt, things that have gone wrong - then guess what you are going to get? More of those things you do not want. And so there’s the downside.
For most people, their default position is to focus on the things they don’t want, whether they are consciously aware of it or not. So then Law of Attraction gives them more of the same. This is why the deliberate use of Law of Attraction is so key because you can control what you are attracting quite effectively when using it in this way.
This can be a very elusive concept. Remember, the thoughts you have lead to words, which lead to a feeling, which leads to an action, which determines the vibration you are sending. Law of Attraction matches your vibration.
So how do you mind your vibration? By being very mindful of and monitoring the language you are using in your conversations. And taking the time to correct your language whenever you catch yourself.
More than any other, there’s one conversation in particular that you must pay very specific attention to. It’s a conversation that is always there and never stops … even right now as you are reading this. And of course, that’s the conversation you are having with you.
There’s that little voice in your head which is always commentating on what you are seeing, what you are doing, what you are thinking - everything. And it’s easy to recognize when you’re paying attention. It may say things like “that’s stupid”, “that was dumb”, “this isn’t going to work”, “I always fail”, etc.
Each of those examples, is an illustration of your self talk being focused on the things you do not want. But what you do or don’t want is of no consequence to Law of Attraction. It simply mirrors back to you what you’re focused on.
Realize that every time you say something like that, whether out loud to someone else or silently to yourself, you are sabotaging yourself and your results. So monitor your language diligently. Each time you catch yourself, pause and then correct.
It’s easy to do. “So, what is it I do want?” Or how about, “that’s interesting”, or “this works for lots of people, it can work for me too”, or even “I always succeed when I put my mind to it”.
Diligently managing your language and self talk will enable you to get much better at focusing on the things in life that you do want instead. And by doing that, you will see a dramatic shift in the results you are seeing. All because you are now applying Law of Attraction deliberately, thereby avoiding its downside.